Friday, July 9, 2010

Act of Kindness: A Great Christian Virtue


Many of us must have read Micah 6:8 many times where it reads “He has showed you, O man, what is good; and what does the LORD require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?”  In reflection I am reminded of a beautiful story told by somebody which can be taken as a real incident which might happen anywhere in India.

An old man, stooped over and leaning on a battered cane, was moving along the sidewalk of a street.  Strings of scarecrow-like hair poked out from under a battered ballcap that he wore at an odd angle.  The cap seemed to be a prized possession because he kept clutching at it each time the autumn breeze tried to snatch it away. His face was pinched into a permanent grimace. Each step took great effort, as though his joints were in dire need of lubrication, but there was something in his pain-racked shuffle that summoned attention.

In the cluster of office-workers scurrying to and from lunchtime appointments, he stood out. No one actually stopped to speak to him or even paused to give him a smile, but everyone took note of him.  The brisk breeze swirling eddies of dust along the avenue suddenly gusted, catching the peak of the old man’s ballcap. It took off like a kite. His mouth wrenched open as his free hand clawed up to grab it, but his arthritic bones could not move fast enough. In his frantic and jerky effort, he almost lost his footing, but then latched onto the cane with both hands to steady his balance.  While he watched the wind do its thing, his eyes echoed a sorrow that emanated from deep inside a canyon of memory. The cap rode a strong current for twenty feet or so, and then came tumbling down in the street to join an assortment of discarded fast-food wrappers and other bits of garbage being swept along the edge of the curb. He went after it in his hunched over stutter-stepping kind of way, but it distanced itself from him in rapidly increasing increments.

A forlorn cry escaped his throat as he tried to hurry.  In his haste he began bumping into people, muttering apologies as he stayed focused on the direction the wind was taking his treasure.  People continued to notice him, but it was as though his distress was invisible.  Despite the old man’s thrashing progress through the crowd, everyone managed to keep pace with his or her deadlines and schedules.  After several blocks of frenzied pursuit, his chest was heaving and beginning to hurt.  Little threads of pain were tightening into a thick, hard knot just behind his breastbone.  His breath was coming in short gasps; his hair was matted with sweat.  He teetered to a faltering stop.  He realized there was no chance of recapturing the ballcap.

A rasping wheeze of a groan choked out of him as his body sagged in defeat.  His shoulders sank even lower than before.  Tears glistened on his weathered cheeks as he looked into the faces of passing strangers, silently pleading and motioning for help.  No one came to his assistance; not a single, solitary person reached out with compassion or kindness.  Even though surrounded by many, many eyewitnesses he was utterly alone in his predicament.  Whatever affection or remembrance he had attached to that ragged ballcap became a deep sense of loss that the old man would be left to grieve over all by himself.

Were there any Christians on the sidewalk that watched the drama unfold without being moved to action? Were they all too busy, too self-absorbed and too preoccupied? Had they perfected the art of pretending not to see?  If the answer to any of those questions is yes, that is tragic.  Too often kindness is a sparse commodity in our communities and neighborhoods, but for those who follow Christ, routine kindness should be automatic. I wonder why that is not always the case?

The basic question we need to ask as a Church is what are we up to in our mission of justice and peace if we are not kind to each other? In our quest for holiness, have we, as a Church, lost sight of the fundamental basics of kindness? Have we become so enthralled by our programs or so consumed by worship wars that we’ve forgotten the profound urgency of kindness? In our desire to be culturally relevant have we forgotten the simple power of loving mercy?  Indeed, kindness is profoundly simple and simply profound. Scripture compels us to be actively involved in ongoing adventures of kindness.  In our context of justice and peace, a fair rendering of the concept of mercy or kindness is for us to be vigilant in following through on our commitment to be nice people who care for others. Jesus modeled this teaching in his life by meeting people at their exact point of need and ministered to them. We are to do likewise so that we can become the first-responders to the ordinary pain of the human condition as intended by God.

Kasta Dip

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